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Campaign 2012, or, Let the mudslinging begin (er. continue?)!
I guess most of you guys either don't talk about politics much on your LJs or you have mostly conservatives on your flist. But for those of you who have liberal flisters, have you experienced any provoking comments yet?
I have an flister who I've met in person a few times. She's a really nice girl but a very strong-minded liberal. Despite our very different political views, we get along well and don't really discuss politics. Today she made a post showing off a button a friend gave her that said "Dogs Against Romney" on it. She told us she was voting for Obama, how strongly held her beliefs are, and five reasons that she's a liberal. She said at the end that she's fine with agreeing to disagree. I told her that's what I love about her, that she can at least be respectful of opposing views. But one of her friends (who isn't on my flist) decides to say "If you have a vagina and are voting the Ronney/Ryan ticket, I judge you. I judge you hard."
It's comments like this that annoy me because they seem like they're looking for a fight. I'm sure this person thinks that not everyone on my friend's flist has the same exact beliefs. And I'm sure there are some out there, but none of the conservatives or libertarians on my flist say things like this. It always seems to be the liberals. More than four years ago a former (thank goodness) flister was ranting "I HATE THE ASSHOLES WHO VOTED FOR BUSH!"
99% of my flist are liberals, so I have a filter for political posts that includes like-minded friends. I know it's my LJ and I should be able to say whatever I want, but I don't feel like slinging mud back and forth with people I otherwise get along with. Has anyone else had to deal with such provoking garbage before? Hoping I'm not alone, lol. I have a feeling it's going to get worse as the weeks go by. *sigh*
I have an flister who I've met in person a few times. She's a really nice girl but a very strong-minded liberal. Despite our very different political views, we get along well and don't really discuss politics. Today she made a post showing off a button a friend gave her that said "Dogs Against Romney" on it. She told us she was voting for Obama, how strongly held her beliefs are, and five reasons that she's a liberal. She said at the end that she's fine with agreeing to disagree. I told her that's what I love about her, that she can at least be respectful of opposing views. But one of her friends (who isn't on my flist) decides to say "If you have a vagina and are voting the Ronney/Ryan ticket, I judge you. I judge you hard."
It's comments like this that annoy me because they seem like they're looking for a fight. I'm sure this person thinks that not everyone on my friend's flist has the same exact beliefs. And I'm sure there are some out there, but none of the conservatives or libertarians on my flist say things like this. It always seems to be the liberals. More than four years ago a former (thank goodness) flister was ranting "I HATE THE ASSHOLES WHO VOTED FOR BUSH!"
99% of my flist are liberals, so I have a filter for political posts that includes like-minded friends. I know it's my LJ and I should be able to say whatever I want, but I don't feel like slinging mud back and forth with people I otherwise get along with. Has anyone else had to deal with such provoking garbage before? Hoping I'm not alone, lol. I have a feeling it's going to get worse as the weeks go by. *sigh*
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"And the social justice wankery that goes on in tumblr makes LJ look like the RNC."
Absolutely. That whole SJ thing is beyond NUTS. The tumblr liberals all make me think of Bad Argument Hippie:
http://www.quickmeme.com/Bad-Argument-Hippie/?upcoming
Again, I tend to picture all of these "SJ" cretins as 19-year-old white upper-class college-girls who have never actually met a member of the various "oppressed" groups that they claim to be defending :P
It wouldn't surprise me if some of them are also making up elaborate false identities (a new and different sexual orientation every week, etc.) out of boredom and a desire for attention and drama.
"I'm one-sixteenth black and I'm also transgender because I borrowed my brother's hoodie today, OMG OPPRESSED MINORITY!1111!!"
I have no doubt that many of them are lonely, unhappy, psychologically unsound people with empty, boring lives, and this is their only way to feel important, superior, powerful, or interesting, by being more PC than thou...
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It wouldn't surprise me if some of them are also making up elaborate false identities (a new and different sexual orientation every week, etc.) out of boredom and a desire for attention and drama.
"I'm one-sixteenth black and I'm also transgender because I borrowed my brother's hoodie today, OMG OPPRESSED MINORITY!1111!!"
Pretty much. These dopey White college girls want to feel like special oppressed snowflakes. And the only way they can claim oppression is by adopting a new sexual orientation. And since being gay is "mainstream" now, they had to invent new ones. XD
I didn't know that there were so many different wacky sexual identities and orientations until tumblr came about (and, naturally, all of them are oppressed by us cisgender, heteronormative scum).
Average tumblr user: "I am a pansexual, polyamorous, genderqueer individual. And anyone who criticizes any of those things is a bigot consumed with cis privilege. And even though I am also oppressed, I shall now apologize to my PoC friends for being white and check my White privilege at the door."
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Exactly. This is tumblr, in a nutshell.
On that note, I think it's very, very important to *refuse to use* the ridiculous made-up vocabulary that these people use. There is no such thing as "cisgender." That's an entirely made-up concept and a made-up word. I reject everything that these people have to say about sex and gender. I do not use their terminology. The word "gender" is ridiculous, too. I simply do not use the vocabulary of the Left.
I'm a woman. No further explanation is needed. If your identity takes more than one or two words to describe, then you are making sh*t up and/or you are psychologically ill. I don't give a damn who I offend by saying that.
Words give things power. Words create reality. If you start using the SJ vocabulary, then you are already making a concession to them and they've already won.
Their beliefs are pure fantasy deserve to be mocked, not acknowledged.
EDIT: TBH, it is time to bring back phrases like "broken home" and "unwed mother", instead of using PC euphemisms. I've also noticed that the word "promiscuous" seems to have disappeared, lately, and instead we have...what? "Slut" now appears to be a badge of honor, not an insult :P
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Word.
However, it does amuse me when I see libs claim to be protecting science from stupid Christians and then go on to say stuff like "It's cissexist to say abortion is a women's issue! Men get pregnant and get abortions, too!!!!". Gender is a scientific fact regardless of how someone might feel inside. But liberals make an exception for transgender people because....feelings or whatever.
EDIT: TBH, it is time to bring back phrases like "broken home" and "unwed mother", instead of using PC euphemisms. I've also noticed that the word "promiscuous" seems to have disappeared, lately, and instead we have...what? "Slut" now appears to be a badge of honor, not an insult :P
I once mentioned "living in sin" to a girl my age and she had no idea what I meant. That made me feel a grandma for a moment. :P
The problem is that many liberals believe that disapproving of things like unwed mothers is the same as wanting them to be shunned and persecuted like Hester Prynne.
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Yes, yes, and yes. Feeling something doesn't make it real. Contrary to their claim that it's the conservatives who are superstitious and anti-science, liberals are all about "feelings", not evidence.
TBH, I am astonished and deeply disturbed at the number of people who seem to believe so vehemently that maleness and femaleness are subjective and changeable.
Maleness and femaleness are real. Males have penises, and females have vaginas. These are facts. I am blown away by the number of people who try to deny these supremely self-evident facts.
Leftists deny reality. That's radical leftism, in a nutshell: they believe that reality itself is oppressive and unfair.
Leftist beliefs about sex, gender, and sexual orientation are absolutely LOADED with contradictions: one minute they're insisting that sexual orientation or homosexuality are absolute and unchangeable, the next minute they're insisting just as intensely that these things are changeable, subjective, vague, and "fluid."
I don't know whether to laugh or cry at these reality-hating misanthropes who gripe about made-up sh*t like "gender essentialism" and "the gender binary." I'll say it again: maleness and femaleness are real, and you can't put them on or take them off like you're trying on different hats.
Yes, Virginia, boys and girls are different. Without that simple fact, we wouldn't have reproduction and therefore we wouldn't have any PEOPLE ;)
To me, this is another one of the central features of leftism: they hate categories or labels of any kind, and they consider categories or labels of any kind to be oppressive, restrictive, and "unfair."
Therefore, leftists want us to believe that there is no difference between male and female, child and adult, criminal and victim, citizen and noncitizen, or enemy and ally.
Like I said before, I reject everything that leftism claims about sex and gender.
Men are men, and women are women. In other shocking news, fish don't fly and birds don't swim. Deal with it. Also, up is not down and day is not night and two plus two does not equal five....
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I never realized that before; but you're absolutely right! If gender/sexuality is "fluid"; than logically that should mean that homosexuals can change if they REALLY want to.
I have nothing against transgender people living how they want if it makes them happy and they're not hurting anyone. But I draw the line when attention whores like Thomas Beattie go on Oprah and DEMAND to be referred to as a "pregnant man" when she is actually just an ugly woman who got knocked up by a turkey baster.
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Yes, this is how I see it: a person has the right to live their life in whatever manner they choose. They do NOT have the right to expect others to play along with their ideas.
It DOES affect other people when someone wants to behave in ways that are contrary to their biological sex. It affects other people in all kinds of ways. If a person wants to behave in ways that are contrary to their physical appearance, then that's their prerogative in a free society, but they do NOT have the right to expect or force the rest of us to accomodate their perception of themselves.
If every single person you meet perceives you as male, but you feel otherwise, then what? "Everybody in the whole world is wrong except me"??? "Everyone's crazy but me"?? That's the situation.
And if you expect every single person you meet to not merely tolerate your behavior, but *accept it and accomodate it and agree with it*, then YOU are the aggressor. YOU are the one rocking the boat, not them.
I strongly believe that there's room in a free society for many types of lifestyles and many forms of expression. But I will not be forced to go along with someone's personal fantasy or someone's unconventional ideas about themselves when said ideas are manifestly at odds with objective reality, or when their behavior starts to violate my right to privacy and my right to a non-threatening environment.
You can call yourself Elvis or Queen Victoria, but that doesn't make it real, and while I'll still be polite and tolerant to the best of my ability, I'm under no obligation to be a *participant* in your personal worldview.
And when someone expects others to pretend that X is Y and that apples are oranges, that's exactly what they're doing: forcing every person they meet to *participate* in their personal ideas about themselves.
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Yes. This is the very same example that I was thinking of. Once again, an example of the fact that activists don't really want privacy, at all.
We're constantly being told that the behavior of some group doesn't affect the rest of us at all, and that the members of said group just want to have privacy and go about their business and live their lives in a discreet and dignified manner.
Of course, this is not true at all. If the members of various activist groups just wanted to have privacy, then they wouldn't be incessantly seeking publicity and exposure and public acknowledgement.
"We need to teach children about XYZ group in the public schools starting in kindergarten, and we need XYZ History Month, and we need more XYZ characters on TV shows" is not seeking privacy.
Activist groups don't want tolerance, at all. They reject mere tolerance. They want to be incessantly *praised and celebrated*.
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Breasts make you female, but *pregnancy* doesn't?? A bit of facial hair makes you male, even when you're *pregnant*?? There is no logic or internal consistency to this concept, at all.
That goes far beyond merely playing around with clothing or experimenting with different ways of expressing yourself.
Thomas Beattie should have been asked to meet with breast-cancer survivors who had double mastectomies and then explain why she CHOSE to cut-off her own perfectly healthy and normal breasts.
I can't even fathom stuff like this. Like I said, this goes way beyond merely experimenting with different forms of self-expression or having a slightly unconventional lifestyle.