I'm definitely not sick of girl power flicks (but I'm the girl who refused to watch the classic Disney princess movies more than once as a child because I was so tired of the Girl Gets Saved By Guy trope), but all you have to do to find tough men is to watch some action movies - Die Hard, Lethal Weapon, True Lies, Independence Day, etc. There are tons of 'em.

Or watch RED and watch guys and girls kick butt.